EKAS854

Can I use a clit sucker with a partner?

erdffh's photo
erdffh
·

3 min read

Clit suction vibrators are often seen as solo toys, but they can absolutely be incorporated into partnered play! If you're looking to add some excitement, intensity, and guaranteed pleasure to your love life, a clit sucker might be the perfect addition.Here's how to use a clit sucker with a partner:1. Open Communication is Key

  • Discuss and Explore Together: Talk openly with your partner about incorporating sex toys into your sex life. Address any questions or concerns they may have.

  • Set Expectations: Explain how a clit sucker works and what sensations to expect.

  • Check In: Communicate during use to ensure both partners are enjoying the experience.

2. Foreplay is Essential

  • Get Aroused First: Ideally, you should be fully aroused before using a clit sucker. The hornier you are, the better the suction will feel.

  • Massage: Ask your partner to move the Pressure wave clitoral stimulator over your body, running the gentle suction down your back, calves, legs, and feet. Let it circle around pressure points on your body, relieving both mental and physical stress.

3. Getting Started with the Clit Sucker

  • Lube Up: Apply a drop or two of water-based lubricant to both the clitoris and the suction head of the toy. This will enhance the seal and make the sensations even more pleasurable. Combining lubricant and sucking vibrators simulates oral sex.

  • Position It Correctly: Cradle the clit within the sucker to create a gentle seal. Place the clitoris within the center of the circular sucker.

  • Start Slow: Begin with the lowest air pressure setting and hold the toy close to the clitoris. Adjust the distance and angle until you find the "sweet spot". Clitoral suckers are supposed to provide indirect stimulation; you should hold the sucker a little distant from your clitoris.

4. Positions to Try

  • Missionary: The missionary is the best position to incorporate a sex toy because the bottom partner has their legs wide open, allowing direct access to their vulva. Your body weight can help hold the toy in place.

  • Doggy Style/Standing: A bent-over doggy style or standing position allows the partner behind to also easily access the vulva. The partner can reach between their legs with the toy.

  • Spooning: Spooning is also a good sex position to add a toy to because the “bigger spoon” is able to reach their hand around to hold the toy between their partner’s legs.

5. Maximize Pleasure During Intercourse

  • Combine Stimulation: Use the clit sucker during penetrative sex.

  • Hold the Toy in Place: Have your partner hold the toy against their clitoris to start, so they’ll know if it’s in the right place.

  • Dual Stimulation: Activating the clit naturally amplifies the arousal of penetrative sex through engorging the area around the vaginal canal. You can use your fingers to stimulate her internally while using the clit sucker.

6. Experiment With Traditional Vibrations and Suction

  • Vibration and Suction Features: Some sex toys come with both vibration and suction features. You can use them for direct or indirect stimulation, so they work like traditional vibrators and clit suction vibrators. Alternate between the two settings to find the perfect rhythm.

7. The Benefits for Your Relationship

  • Enhanced Orgasms: Clitoral suction is one of the most effective ways to increase the intensity of clitoral orgasms.

  • Discover Multi-Orgasmic Potential: You might even find out your partner is multi-orgasmic.

  • Guaranteed Fun: Since most people require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, this is almost a guaranteed fun time for both of you.

  • Enhanced Intimacy: Incorporating sex toys can enhance intimacy.